You Can Become More Confident. Here’s How.

• Make a list of what you have succeeded at in life.  Review this list.  ALL of us have some successes.  Just reminding yourself of where you have done well will give you a boost.

• Confidence comes from successfully accomplishing goals over time.  So get out there and work on different projects.  There more you do and the more you succeed at, the more confident you will become.

• Keep saying over and over and over to yourself (out loud or internally): “I am confident.  I am confident.  I am confident.  I am confident.”

• Carry yourself with confidence.  With time, your physical posture will become more balanced.  In the meantime, fake it and challenge yourself to be more confident by assuming the posture of confidence.

• Focus on spiritual reality.  Spiritual reality is the only constant in life.  Center your attention in this.  When you are aligned with God, you are naturally and humbly confident—and you don’t expect external reality to conform to your every wish.